Remember my great-nephew who attempted suicide in September and was on a ventilator? They removed the ventilator and he was breathing on his own but he never regained consciousness. Now, two months later, he has passed away. This is one time death is an unequivocal blessing.
thank you for the well wishes. I've talked about him before and how much I wish his mother had given him away because he grew up in a town with a population under 300 and everyone knowing his father was one of men who raped his mom when she was in college. it warped his life.
and of course his mom resented him. she never went back to college. When she died last year. her obituary included the fact that she got pregnant and had him and never returned to college. that's a kind of resentment that also is really hard on a kid she was constantly looking for" bad blood."
if she'd giving them away as she had planned, he could have grown up with a clean slate with nobody knowing anything about his origin and not have teachers and other people expecting misbehavior because of some cockamamie idea about inherited bad blood.