「"成為女性就是讓別人為你做你想要的,而你自己要付出代價(To be female is to let someone else do your desiring for you, at your own expense)。"
"為了我們這裡的目的,我將把任何犧牲自我好為了他人的慾望騰出空間的精神操作定義為女性(For our purposes here, I’ll define as female any psychic operation in which the self is sacrificed to make room for the desires of another)"