I'm glad you guys are taking the time to work through this together, now before moving too fast and can't stop to think let alone go back and work on the finer details and logistics

but yeah I can definitely see it bringing up a lot of emotions and just.... a lot.

take your time, take breaks to sort out your emotions and what you want to bring to the table

Brenda's advice is good. Be gentle with yourselves and with each other <3

Thank you. I'm able to be present with him to plan things out, it just seems to be taking a toll on me afterwards. So far we're pretty much on the same page about things.

is glad youre on the same page. its good to have a plan for the long haul