Jane Chin asks Jul 02, 2008 03:00PM how do you distinguish between hesitation about a project that is born of fear v. because the project is no longer aligned with your goals?
AbleReach Jul 02, 2008 03:32PM plain ol fear usually lifts or shifts once I get into the project. Lack of fit-with-goals gets worse.
Jane Chin says Jul 02, 2008 03:34PM i conducted an informal feasibility with advisors for a project idea that can take off. it can go big or remain small depending on my level
Jane Chin says Jul 02, 2008 03:34PM in the past i've done harder things and fear was not even an issue (was scared but didn't care)
Jane Chin says Jul 02, 2008 03:35PM my gut feel is that this is not completely aligned with where i'm supposed to head, except i'm still figuring out where i'm supposed to head
AbleReach asks Jul 02, 2008 03:48PM can you nail down exactly what your resistance is? If both where you're supposed to head and the fear are not specific, it gets harder.
SandyBBerry says Jul 03, 2008 05:39AM I find the more I work on something the less fear (of failure) I feel. If any fear. However, if my feeling of dread goes up then I
Jane Chin says Jul 03, 2008 05:44AM right, sandybberry that is one clue that it's fear of/from unknown rather than resistance due to lack of alignment with personal goals.
