bloggeries asks Jul 29, 2008 06:16PM Do you find technology isolating? If we weren't so wired would we all spend so much time alone?
th13rteen says Jul 29, 2008 06:17PM nope. we would be spending more time outside playing, hanging out, etc
pritcharddesign says Jul 29, 2008 06:17PM I'm pretty isolated 'cause I work alone, but have stayed in even more since plurking!
Inhibitor thinks Jul 29, 2008 06:18PM it depends on your definition of "alone". I'm currently having a conversation with people I would never have met without technology.
frappelattes says Jul 29, 2008 06:18PM it is definitely isolating... probably not the best thing since nothing beats human interaction
Eeyores_Tail Jul 29, 2008 06:19PM would prefer to be alone, i see people all day long. when on the puter, alone, I feel at peace.
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:19PM My two best friends I met online and had an exclusively online relationship with them for 2 years before we were physically near each other
classicalgeek says Jul 29, 2008 06:19PM i spend less time alone because of technology--i can arrange meetings online!
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:20PM Inhibitor alone I mean no one around. As stimulating as chatting online is it still doesn't really fill the void of face to face interactn
Stephanator Jul 29, 2008 06:21PM yes, it certainly can be isolating, but we also have the opportunity to talk with people all over the world we wouldnt have otherwise
Youredge says Jul 29, 2008 06:22PM online friendship's can be made online my two best friends were met on the XBOX and they got married and had the 1st XBOX baby
templestark Jul 29, 2008 06:23PM yes, i think now we have so much people will say less bad about it but it has many minuses in this area
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:25PM I feel that online you have the potential to know someone far quicker and better than if you'd met them face to face. Face to face, we
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:26PM usually wear masks until we're more confident. I don't find the same thing online... OFF social sites that is.
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:25PM I met my best friends through a common interest. There was no reason for either to lie to me because the aim of both sites was not to meet
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:26PM people but to discuss a common interest...they just started to come out. Their real selves that is.
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:32PM it's like sure we're all "here" in this plurk but I look around and there is no one HERE.
sociallydistressed says Jul 29, 2008 06:33PM I think tech is a double edge sword. To some it can be a gateway to getting out more, to others a trap to stay indoors.
templestark Jul 29, 2008 06:33PM don't buy it, just forgotten how it's supposed ot be, as if shared interests wasn't a reason to be friends before computers.
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:34PM Well no, I was just clarifying how close people can get online because they're not face to face. I'm friends with people who wouldn't have
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:34PM I ran a BBS in 1995ish and I had 1 paying customer for access. Turns out the kid my age lived 2 blocks over.Hung out for years.
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:35PM spoken to me otherwise. I mean, being honest here. It's not to say that "real" friends are useless...just that the internet is far from
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:36PM the reality of the matter is once you graduate school if you work online for a small firm or anywhere. You don't physically meet many ppl.
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:36PM That's very, very true. There was a period in my life where ALL of my friends were virtual...just because I had nothing in common with
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:39PM lyricalkris - Many have no co-workers or no co-workers close to being a "peer group".
templestark Jul 29, 2008 06:39PM See you've accepted this "...you don't physically meet many ppl." as if it's true or the way it should be. It's not.
KSan says Jul 29, 2008 06:40PM templestark it's true for a lot of people and always has been. Surely you've read of people who are always reclusive and alone.
templestark Jul 29, 2008 06:41PM I'm going off the questions first asked. Yes. No. Some people are still socially awkward or prefer their own company but that's diff. ?
Mahala says Jul 29, 2008 06:42PM I grew up in a large city, but I live in a very tiny, very "Bible Belt" town. Think, square peg, round hole.
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:44PM templeshark nothing to do with socially awkward. I just mean with technology it makes less need for face to face interaction in today wrld
bloggeries says Jul 29, 2008 06:45PM So most spend more time alone regardless if they are social butterfly; hermit or something in the middle. not person specific. but societal
thehawke says Jul 29, 2008 07:39PM I suppose it depends on how it is used. LOML and I met online. 13 years later, here we are
PlurkSensei thinks Jul 29, 2008 07:41PM we would talk to people more. Like, *real* people. Er, no offense to everyone <3 Altho' the Internet has saved some from depression~
donwhite says Jul 29, 2008 10:19PM I'm not isolated! My wife brings me a beer and a sandwich a couple times a day.
Becca L-Smith says Jul 29, 2008 10:44PM I'm a sociaphobe so technology IS a fantastic way for me to connect with real people. I have friends here that I would never have IRL.
ScrapNancy says Jul 29, 2008 10:51PM I find technology a great way to meet up with quirky people like me. And I'm a socialphobe so the computer helps a lot.
Te-ge Jul 29, 2008 11:34PM would likely spend more time curled up with a book, so it's actually less isolating for me.