| sugiggs | says | Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire - Song of Solomon 8:6 |
| sugiggs | says | Jealousy is one of the strongest drives known to man. It comes from the root word for zeal and means |
| sugiggs | says | 'to burn with a intense fire' |
| sugiggs | says | There are actually two forms: a legitimate jealousy based upon love, and an illegitimate jealousy based upon envy. |
| sugiggs | says | Legitimate jealousy sparks when someone you love, who belongs to you, turns his/her heart away and replaces you with someone else. |
| sugiggs | says | The Bible describes God as having this kind of righteous jealousy for His people. |
| sugiggs | says | It's that He deeply longs for us, desiring for us to keep Him as our first love. |
| sugiggs | says | Illegitimate kind of jealousy is rooted in selfishness, that is 'moved with envy' |
| sugiggs | says | Do you struggle with being jealous of others? Your friend is more popular, your coworker gets promotion. |
| sugiggs | says | He may have done nothing wrong, but you became bitter because of his success. |
| sugiggs | says | Jealousy is a common struggle. It is sparked when someone else upstages you and gets something you want. |
| sugiggs | says | If you don't diffuse your anger by learning to love others, you may eventually begin plotting against them. |
| sugiggs | says | e.g. Cain envied his brother, Sarah envied Hagar, Joseph's brothers envied him. |
| sugiggs | says | You don't usually get jealous of disconnected strangers. The ones you're tempted to be jealous of primarily in the same arena with you. |
| sugiggs | says | Yes, if you aren't careful, jealousy can also infect your marriage. |
| sugiggs | says | When you are married, both of you became one and were to share in the enjoyment of the other. |
| sugiggs | says | But if selfishness rules, any good thing happening to only one of you can be a catalyst for envy rather than congratulations. |
| sugiggs | says | He may enjoying golf on the weekend while she stays home cleaning the house. He boasts to her about shooting a great score |
| sugiggs | says | and she feels like shooting him. |
| sugiggs | says | Or perhaps she is constantly invited to go out with friends while he is left home with the dog. |
| sugiggs | says | If he's not careful, he can resent he popularity. |
| sugiggs | says | Because love is not selfish and puts others first, it refuses to let jealousy in. |
| sugiggs | says | A loving husband doesn't mind his wife being better at something. He sees her as completing him, not competing with him. |
| sugiggs | says | A loving wife will be the first to cheer for her man when he wins. |
| sugiggs | says | It is time to let love, humility, and gratefulness destroy any jealousy that springs up in your heart. |
| sugiggs | says | It's time to let your mate's success draw you closer together and give you greater opportunities to show genuine love. |
| sugiggs | says | **Today's dare**: Determine to become your spouse's biggest fan and reject any thoughts of jealousy. |
| sugiggs | says | To help you set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, |
| sugiggs | says | take yesterday's list of negative attributes and discreetly burn it. |
| sugiggs | says | Then share with your spouse how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed. -end |
| sugiggs | says | How hard was it to destroy the list? What are some positive experiences that you can celebrate in the life of your mate? |
| sugiggs | says | How can you encourage them toward future successes? |
| sugiggs | says | Jia you  |
| BINGo | says |  |
| ChenMe |  |
| lunaphi | says | kalo ini lebih gampang... |
| BINGo | says | Bukan nya lebih susah ya.. |
| lunaphi | says | gampang. coz i'm not a jealous person |
| ChenMe | masa sih? hehe.. tp kadang jelouse kan nda cuman karena lingkungan/keadaan tp juga bisa ke relationship gt.. |
| Dalicia | says | love is not true possesion |
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