Walter BurnsfeelsSome sort of way doing this House of Umoja research. Seems Jesse Jackson threw around the N-word pretty liberally in '73. Just sayin'..
July 22, 2008 at 17:35Walter Burnssaysquote: "Ain't no N- got no justification to kill another N-." I'm sayin' though; Jesse MUST be smarter than that. Or so I thought. Ugh.
July 22, 2008 at 17:36JDHPsaysI'm sure he is, but he's just not as polished as we have previously thought him to be
July 22, 2008 at 17:37HustleManiasaysHmm...that's interesting. Seems like Jesse was always flaky. What happened with him and that kid
July 22, 2008 at 17:38Camping Lisawondersif the black community is ok with the "N" word as long as you are black. I heard Whoopi Goldberg say it is ok as long as a black person ...
July 22, 2008 at 17:38Walter BurnssaysYou got that right, JDHP; I guess all habits never die. I'm not shocked either, veronicaromm; more disheartened, I guess..->
July 22, 2008 at 17:38Walter Burnssays<- shocked it showed up in print as boldly as it did. Hmm..
July 22, 2008 at 17:38Camping Lisasaysas a "white person" it can be confusing. I don't like it
July 22, 2008 at 17:39Camping Lisasaysthe "n" word that is
July 22, 2008 at 17:40JDHPsayssome people use it to refer to all people not just african-americans. its like a noun alomst.
July 22, 2008 at 17:40AwakenedsaysI don't use it and won't respond to it at all. But I don't condemn those that do. *Too liberal and believes in the freedom of speech*
July 22, 2008 at 17:41JDHPsaysI've heard people say things like "look at that Chinese N---- right there"
July 22, 2008 at 17:41Walter BurnssaysI have had this debate maybe a million times, especially whiel covering hip-hop for features. Ehh, the world would be much better off w/o it
July 22, 2008 at 17:42MelissaThinkssaysthe argument on the view was interesting. Elizabeth just really doesn't get that we all have different cultures.
July 22, 2008 at 17:43JDHPsaysAnd Puerto-Ricans use it just as much as African-Americans.
July 22, 2008 at 17:43JDHPsaysNot ALL but where I'm from it is as common as Concrete
July 22, 2008 at 17:43Awakenedsaysdo I like the word, the answer is no. But again, I do believe in the freedom of speech.
July 22, 2008 at 17:44MelissaThinkssaysas an Italian American I will say things about other Italians but God help an Irish person if they said it. Same kind of thing.
July 22, 2008 at 17:44AwakenedsaysAnd therefore, if we start banning words we don't like what else do we start banning. It's all tied together.
July 22, 2008 at 17:45AwakenedsaysEnough of our freedoms are being taken away.
July 22, 2008 at 17:46Camping LisasaysI understand not "banning" a word., I am a public school teacher and it does get rather "GRAY" when you want to have consequences for
July 22, 2008 at 17:47Camping Lisasaysthe student who uses the "N" word in a derogatory way when just 2 min earlier it was used by the same person it was used against..
July 22, 2008 at 17:47JDHPsaysdepending upon your position, if your a public figure, you have a different set of rules than a guy from up the block
July 22, 2008 at 17:48Camping Lisasaysit seems like it is a word that shows disrespect
July 22, 2008 at 17:48Camping Lisasaysso even if you are using it as a "noun" it has an element of disrespect
July 22, 2008 at 17:48Walter BurnssaysAhh, the free-thinking Plurkanatti has spoken! There are some interesting viewpoints in this thread....
July 22, 2008 at 17:49AliceMei 혜서That reminds me...I was watching the Pam Grier movie, Coffy, and they used the N-word a load of times. I was a bit shocked.
July 22, 2008 at 17:49JDHPsayspeople will say its ok and its a freedom of speech until your in a position where people expect something different from you.
July 22, 2008 at 17:50AwakenedsaysI never said the word is ok. But it does unfortunately fall under freedom of speech.
July 22, 2008 at 17:50AwakenedsaysNow with that said, does that mean that I will buy a song from an artist that uses that word, the answer is no.
July 22, 2008 at 17:51Awakenedsayswould I vote for a politician that uses that word, no. Would I associate myself with someone that uses that word, no.
July 22, 2008 at 17:51AwakenedsaysThis is where freedom of speech and your own personal options come into play. We can exercise the **right** not to condone such a word.
July 22, 2008 at 17:51AwakenedsaysBut we should not ban it either.
July 22, 2008 at 17:53Walter BurnssaysAnd with FOS comes a certain level of responsibility; and true, FOS doesn't protect the speaker from a wicked backlash. Very interesting...
July 22, 2008 at 17:53Camping Lisaaskshow do we teach our children the proper use (or in my opinion no use) of the word...I agree with the freedom of speech thing..but I would
July 22, 2008 at 17:53LEMillsisfascinated by how words morph according to meaning and context. Wonder where "friend" will be in the near future (not to derail this convo)
July 22, 2008 at 17:54Camping Lisaaskswelcome ideas. I work at teaching diversity and acceptance in a VERY rural school in south central PA
July 22, 2008 at 17:54Awakenedsaysfreedom of speech does not and should not dismiss the right to teach your kids the reason why this word should not be used.
July 22, 2008 at 17:54AwakenedsaysPersonal responsibility is not covered by freedom of speech. It's the same as calling some Asian Oriental.
July 22, 2008 at 17:55AwakenedsaysOr calling a Hispanic person a spic.
July 22, 2008 at 17:55AwakenedsaysParents should be able to sit down, explain to **their** children what the word means and why it should not be used & is not condone by them
July 22, 2008 at 17:58Camping Lisasaysmany of my student's parents use the "N" word and any host of other words inappropriately. I word very hard to undo a lot of hate taught
July 22, 2008 at 18:01Walter Burnssayscampinglisa (and all who chimed in) has a point: you have to school the youth of today on it; sadly, parents throw it around just as much..
July 22, 2008 at 18:05Awakenedsaysunfortunately, I agree, there are many irresponsible parents. The children may or may not see your POV. But I still stand on not banning.
July 22, 2008 at 18:05AwakenedsaysAlthough this country does have freedom of speech, we have banned in the past and continue to ban certain books, music, etc.
July 22, 2008 at 18:06AwakenedsaysAgain, I don't agree with this type of banning. I believe our ability to choose. But banning FOS ...
July 22, 2008 at 18:07Awakenedsaysno matter how hateful infringes on that right which can be used to ban things that we don't want to ban.
July 22, 2008 at 18:09Walter BurnssaysA_NYRican is right on the ban; in fact, I think a ban will have the opposite effect, like those 'Explicit Lyrics" warnings on cd's...
July 22, 2008 at 18:10Walter BurnssaysBanning language is putting both feet on a very slippery slope, IMHO...good feedback and comments!
July 22, 2008 at 18:10Camping LisasaysI agree with you A_NYRican I just get so frustrated with people who disrespect others or themselves
July 22, 2008 at 18:10Camping LisasaysI think that using the "N" word and any host of others like women who use the "B" word for each other are showing a level of disrespect to
July 22, 2008 at 18:12JDHPsayswell that word is not going away, if anything its more prominent now than ever. And its double-standard laced slur
July 22, 2008 at 18:12Awakenediswiping her sweaty brow and taking a good sip of her ice cold water. LOL
July 22, 2008 at 18:12Walter BurnssaysThat's what soapboxes are for!! That's just endemic of self-hate, campinglisa, in all its myriad forms....
July 22, 2008 at 18:14AwakenedsaysI don't think I want that word to go away. I believe we (parents, teachers, the entire community) should teach our kids why...
July 22, 2008 at 18:14Awakenedsaysthe use of the word should not be promoted as something positive.
July 22, 2008 at 18:15Awakenedsaysthe moment that words goes away the impact of the word goes away with it.
July 22, 2008 at 18:15AwakenedsaysIf you noticed the word has been changed in spelling lessen the impact of what the word means.
July 22, 2008 at 18:15JDHPsaysmost people wont bat and eye if its said until you are in the public eye. most people wont address it until Michael Richards says it
July 22, 2008 at 18:16JDHPsaysor Bill O'riely or... Dick Cheney
July 22, 2008 at 18:16Camping LisasaysA_NYRican I totally agree. I read something by John Milton called Areopagitica which speaks against censoring..it is old but relevant
July 22, 2008 at 18:17AwakenedsaysThis shows the impact has been changed to the **new** generation. We have the responsibility to say No, and it means this & it s origin.
July 22, 2008 at 18:17Camping Lisasaysit is sort of like the frog in boiling water analagy isn't it?
July 22, 2008 at 18:18Awakenedsaysunfortunately, yes it is.
July 22, 2008 at 18:17JDHPsaysor the crab in the bucket
July 22, 2008 at 18:20Awakenedsaysthis reminds me of something George Carlin said about changing how people feel about something by changing the word.
July 22, 2008 at 18:20AwakenedsaysI remember he said something to the effect that once you change the word to something else the impact of that word changes as well.
July 22, 2008 at 18:21AwakenedsaysI wish I could remember exactly what he said because he made perfect sense.
July 22, 2008 at 18:21Walter BurnssaysThe spell change was a front, though, A_NYRican; I wonder which forces were behind that? NWA? 2 Live Crew? 'a' is more accepted than 'er'..
July 22, 2008 at 18:22Awakenedsaysexactly it is a front. But when our kids see this as oh well it means something else now. How do we combat that?
July 22, 2008 at 18:22Awakenedsayswe have to gear ourselves with knowledge how words impact our way of thinking.
July 22, 2008 at 18:22Camping Lisaasks<as an obviously white woman> why does it not bother much of the Black community when the groups like NWA and 2 Live Crew use the word
July 22, 2008 at 18:23Awakenedfeelsthat for all those plurks I never get a chance to respond to I think this one makes up for it. LOL
July 22, 2008 at 18:23Awakenedsaysit only does not bother some. Not all of us feel that way. I don't care who you are, what color you are as a Black Puerto Rican woman...
July 22, 2008 at 18:23JDHPsaysBecause they say it just as much as they do on the records. it a term used as not negatively as it should be but as a way to refer to...
July 22, 2008 at 18:24AwakenedsaysI am here to tell you that I will speak up on not using that word in front of me
July 22, 2008 at 18:25Awakenedsaysand this is where the issue lies. Why does the Black community accept this word? Why is it OK for some to use and not others.
July 22, 2008 at 18:26AwakenedsaysI understand why Caucasians are confused. I really do. And honestly, I don't have an answer to that. I can only speak for myself.
July 22, 2008 at 18:26JDHPsaysDOUBLE-STANDARD. Black people have a Monopoly on it. In my opinion. Black people can say whatever about anybody and no one holds them to it
July 22, 2008 at 18:26Camping Lisasaysthis is why the "white" community gets confused...ok I am not apologizing for the Imus's of the world, but it does seem confusing
July 22, 2008 at 18:26AwakenedsaysI completely agree.
July 22, 2008 at 18:30Walter BurnssaysDeep thread. In some parts of the black community, the word is almost defended; in others, it's reviled. There's no consensus anymore..
July 22, 2008 at 18:32Awakenedsayshe may be. But again, he brought up an issue that continues to be an issue in the Black community today - unity.
July 22, 2008 at 18:31JDHPsaysthe damage is done, obviously.
July 22, 2008 at 18:33Walter BurnssaysWhat amazes me is that I have never heard any other derogatory term thrown around/embraced as much as 'N-." what is THAT saying? Anything?
July 22, 2008 at 18:34Awakenedsaysexactly DCW but you know why because the group that should have denounced it embraced it themselves.
July 22, 2008 at 18:35AwakenedsaysAs a Puerto Rican, I would never allow you to call me a spic. Some hispanics do but very few. Most would denounce the word immediately.
July 22, 2008 at 18:36AwakenedsaysI have a young lady here in Plurk who constantly throws that word around. I never respond to those plurks.
July 22, 2008 at 18:36JDHPsaysYeah, thats crazy. Who's behind that?
July 22, 2008 at 18:39Camping LisasaysI think that DCW Burns will have a sky rocketing Karma after this thread
July 22, 2008 at 18:41Walter BurnssaysI feel you, A_NYRican; As an African-American, I cringe when I hear it; as a journalist, I need the FOS; I hate the conundrum, personally.
July 22, 2008 at 18:41Awakenedsaysthis is what Plurk considers a quality Plurk
July 22, 2008 at 18:43Camping LisasaysDCW burns anytime you want to do a fascinating story on the "Challenge of Diversity in rural america" you can come to my school and
July 22, 2008 at 18:43Camping Lisasaysinterview me and some of my students
July 22, 2008 at 18:49Walter Burnssays-on your school?
July 22, 2008 at 18:49Walter BurnssaysWell, this is a hot-button issue, A_NYRican and The Plurkanatti is not short on opinions
July 22, 2008 at 18:50ampersandreasaysI've skimmed the plurk. I hope I don't repeat anything. I think its a cop out to 'embrace' a word by changing the -er to an -a.
July 22, 2008 at 18:51Camping Lisasaysno...but would you have it any other way?
July 22, 2008 at 18:51ampersandreasaysDo I use it? Yep. To describe people that don't take responsibility in themselves, their neighborhood, family, community...
July 22, 2008 at 18:51ampersandreasayspeople...of ALL RACES
July 22, 2008 at 18:52ampersandreasaysI would actually. I would rather have a world where the word doesn't apply to anyone.
July 22, 2008 at 18:54Awakenedsaysbut again you have changed the meaning of the word.
July 22, 2008 at 18:56Awakenedsaysso basically, this is the problem. The impact of the word has been changed.
July 22, 2008 at 18:55ampersandreasaysI always thought it just meant 'an ignorant person' - with racial undertones, of course
July 22, 2008 at 18:56Awakenedsaysusing it in the context that it was used it, you are basically saying all Blacks are lazy and irresponsible.
July 22, 2008 at 18:56Awakenedsaysthe problem is that our youth don't know what the word means. Another issue.
July 22, 2008 at 18:57ampersandreasaysbut I didn't say I was using solely on black people though. I said people of ALL RACES.
July 22, 2008 at 18:59Awakenedsaysbut that's the problem
July 22, 2008 at 19:00Awakenedsaysplease research the word. After you do, you will never use it to describe anyone.
July 22, 2008 at 19:00Awakenedsayssee the origin, why it was used and the purpose it served.
July 22, 2008 at 19:00Awakenedsaysor if you want I can do this in a private plurk.
July 22, 2008 at 19:04ampersandreasaysI just wiki'ed it.
July 22, 2008 at 19:05ampersandreasaysand also I understand that wiki isn't the end all of research
July 22, 2008 at 19:06ampersandreasaysbut *I AM* at work...
July 22, 2008 at 19:07Awakenedsayshaha I understand. When you can. But I am glad that you are trying to understand.
July 22, 2008 at 19:17Walter BurnssaysIt's very complex and layered; I also think, to the older generation, the folks that were born prior to 1950, it carries a lot of pain...
July 22, 2008 at 19:18Walter Burnssaysfor the younger cats, those more edgy, worldly, it may carry a different context. My grandmother would fall OUT if she heard it, for example
July 22, 2008 at 19:19ampersandreasayssee - my dad had this campaign. T.E.N. = total elimination of niggas. And he defined niggas as ppl who are irresponsible.
July 22, 2008 at 19:20ampersandreasaysThat's where I got it from.
July 22, 2008 at 19:20ampersandreasaysand outside of the historical context - I still agree with that.
July 22, 2008 at 19:23AwakenedsaysOK. And please don't take this the wrong way but you just proved my point. Change the word changes the impact. *Amen*
July 22, 2008 at 19:32Walter BurnssaysThis is some thread. 144 responses, including perhaps 20 of my own. I appreciate everyone's comments! Free thinkers, indeed...
July 22, 2008 at 20:17LEMillsisback from a 2-hr meeting, and no one's mentioned Joseph Conrad yet! Mostly, though, I'm interested in the community-based useage.
July 22, 2008 at 20:17LEMillsThere's no parallel in the white world (I don't think). We don't throw around "WASP" as an in-group term of affection or derision, (do we?)
July 22, 2008 at 20:21Walter BurnssaysLEMills is very smart; that's one of the points I was trying to make!!
July 22, 2008 at 20:24LEMillsdcw, you're going out on a limb there! But "honkey" (sp?) was not something we called ourselves...
July 22, 2008 at 20:24Awakenedagrees with LEMills and I know that was one of the points but again this will bring me back to my soapbox. I need to eat to type that one.
July 22, 2008 at 20:25LEMillsSo perhaps it's a word that has a mixed affection - a "safe" word to signify an oppressed group
July 22, 2008 at 20:26LEMillsbut used by the outsiders to reinforce that oppression
July 22, 2008 at 20:28LEMillsAnd while I'm here... I really, REALLY dislike the frequency of "d-bag" - just another sexist remark in a world with too many already
July 22, 2008 at 20:49Camping LisasaysI just realized what you meant by "d-bag" I thought it meant "dirt bag"...
July 22, 2008 at 21:24LEMillsHA! I'm always reading it as "douche" (there are so many levels to that... the procedure beingsomething of my mother's generation)
July 22, 2008 at 21:25LEMills[but I derail again] it's all context, though, isn't it?
July 22, 2008 at 21:43latoyasuttonsaysthis is a good conversation to have. And it's being handled intelligently too. You don't see that too often.
July 22, 2008 at 21:54LEMillsWell, one reason may be that the usual bunch of commenters for Damon's Daily News articles aren't on Plurk! (or at least I don't think so)
July 22, 2008 at 23:37lilyhillWords have the power to hurt. ANY words. It's the intention behind them. Never allowed hate speech in my house. Awareness starts there.
July 23, 2008 at 00:02Walter BurnssaysYou got that absolutely right, LEMills. And lilyhill is also right; its amazing how much music I thrown out, over the lyrics, for the kids
July 23, 2008 at 00:41JDHPsayswow this plurk is still going? COOL!
July 23, 2008 at 01:14Awakenedsayslilyhill you are right on the mark. Awareness starts in the home. Unfortunately, like one of the writers here wrote, some just don't.
July 23, 2008 at 01:15AwakenedsaysOr use the word themselves. It's the education of parents - the community as a whole that needs to change. But banning is not the way.
July 24, 2008 at 01:55SquireHoggwisheseveryone could read something like this. This has been a wonderful discussion of issues that should be discussed more openly, more often.
July 24, 2008 at 01:58SquireHoggsaysthe more you learn about people of different faith, race, color, gender, ethnicity, nationality- the more you realize we are all the same.
July 24, 2008 at 01:59SquireHoggsaysWords don't matter. Respect matters. I heard Richard Pryor say the N word a million times, and I never felt he was doing anything wrong.
July 24, 2008 at 02:01SquireHoggsaysI can call myself a freaking Hebrew. Anyone who respects me can say that. (I am Jewish, although do not practice the religion actively)
July 24, 2008 at 02:02SquireHoggsaysSome jewish people would say I'm not a good Jew. Fine. But if a racist calls me a friggin Jew, not good.
July 24, 2008 at 02:03SquireHoggthinksif we respect eachother, words don't matter. And believe it or not, I actually respect Jesse Jackson on in many ways.
July 24, 2008 at 02:04Camping LisasaysSquireHogg that I think we teach people how to treat (or call us) so if we use words for ourselves that our offensive from others..it sends
July 24, 2008 at 02:05Camping Lisasaysconfusing messages...
July 24, 2008 at 02:05SquireHogghere's my shocker: I think the whole thing was done on purpose!!
July 24, 2008 at 02:07SquireHoggSomeone, somewhere thought that if JJ did something wacky, and Senator Obama distanced himself, it would be good for the Obama campaign.
July 24, 2008 at 02:07SquireHoggaskshow's that for keeping this wonderful plurk going!!
July 24, 2008 at 02:08Camping LisasaysI think this is not where we were going with this thread...
July 24, 2008 at 02:11SquireHoggsaysI see what you mean campinglisa, and agree. I was taught to respect people of other races and faiths by my parents.
July 24, 2008 at 02:13SquireHoggsaysAnd yet sometimes I remember hearing words or generalizations that I knew were wrong. I made the choice to respect AND to be sensitive...